Dick Tomey Legacy Fund

Positive Coaching Alliance

It is with great sadness that we share the news of Dick Tomey’s death on May 10, 2019 @ 9:30pm. He died surrounded by his family, resting peacefully, after battling lung cancer for months. We are all heartbroken to lose him, but are forever grateful to have shared his life.

To us, Dick Tomey was one of a kind. Known for his room-for-everyone big-heartedness, generous spiritedness (to a fault), instinctive kindness, love and respect for people of all walks, and the ease with which he forgave himself and others and moved on with life without resentments—taught all of us so much.



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 Arizona
Hawaii
SF Bay Area

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Rich Tomey
PCA Chapter Executive Director
Arizona & Hawaii


100% of these funds will go directly to providing scholarships and programming for underserved youth in Arizona, Hawaii, and the San Francisco Bay Area that cannot afford PCA programming.


Dick Tomey was never petty, never small minded. He was a man who discovered his mission in life, embraced it, enjoyed it, and accomplished amazing things. When speaking of football, he often said, “Football is not complicated. People are.” He was always, first and foremost, a people person. 


On the football field he was a tough as nails coach, who loved fierce competition and the thrill of team-building. He loved his players, every single one of them—always. He was hard on them. He constantly raised the bar. He could do that because he knew how to find the goodness and the talent in people. If he didn’t find it immediately, he kept looking until he did, and once he found goodness/talent he never lost sight of it. He expressed his admiration and raised his expectations—and watched both things multiply. Just that gift alone changed lives, including some of ours. When it came to football, Dick Tomey had an eye for undiscovered ability, an eye for raw potential, an eye for leadership—and a deep regard for guys who walked on, who sacrificed to play the game simply because they loved it. He was never afraid to be the underdog coach, with the underdog team… in fact, he was partial to taking his underdog team(s) in to play the moneyed power schools… and his teams won their share of those games.

Off the field Dick was a beautiful human being. His was a loving spirit. He was a natural leader, a natural teacher. His gift of oratory was legendary. Nearly everyone who knew him can quote Dick Tomey on some subject. Words were his most powerful tool (even his profanity was eloquent). When he spoke he made listeners out of non-listeners, believers out of non-believers. He lifted, he challenged, he inspired. He could change the way a person thought about life, about the world around him, and the person would be better for the change. His own family is proof of that.

Dick Tomey never aspired to fame or fortune. As a young man he dreamed of coaching junior high football. His long career included its share of hard knocks and frustrations, but he insisted, “I wouldn’t change a thing.” It was his selflessness and dedication to the common good that always propelled him forward.

As a family we rarely talk about how many games Dick Tomey won—we talk about how many hearts he won... including all of ours.

A Celebration of Life will be announced at a later date. Thank you to everyone for your love and support during this tough time.

The Tomey Family



Want to give to support PCA's greatest need? Click below to support PCA in the following Chapters.

Arizona • Hawaii • SF Bay Area

Support Dick Tomey's Legacy in Arizona

University of Arizona
Head Football Coach: 1987-2000

Support Dick Tomey's Legacy in Hawaii

University of Hawaii
Head Football Coach: 1977-1986

Support Dick Tomey's Legacy in SF Bay Area

San Jose State University
Head Football Coach: 2005-2009

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